Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Lies

LIES



Why do people lie !!! 



A lie is an intentionally false statement to a person or group made by another person or group who knows it is not wholly the truth.

I have been wondering why people always Lie.

There are several factors to consider. But on a high level, Hide can be categorized in to intentional and unintentional. 

But all Lies are intentional. People never lie without knowing. They lie due to the fear. Since they are afraid of losing something they lie. It’s better to stop lying and be bold enough to let the truth known to the others. 


Either they are not really interested in sharing this with you, or they don’t want you to know or they think you are no part of that info, so you should not know it.

Eventually what happens is for hiding one lie, people end up saying 100's of lies.


“If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything.”
Mark Twain

“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you.”
Friedrich Nietzsche



Has anybody thought what makes a person lie? Direct answer would be fear !!! Fear that one might lose something like relationship, reputation, trust etc.
Sometimes it’s really hard to let the truth know to everybody, but its real hard to hide it and not let it out. A Truth hurts most when it’s hidden.  Its your world. Feel free to do what you want. But do the right thing. And when you do it, or intend to do it, don’t hide it. There is no use hiding it , There is no use doing something with a fear. When you are feared of letting other’s know what you are doing , then why do it.


Once you get caught lying about something, which will hurt more than anything for life time and forever whatever you tell will seem to be a lie.
Be yourself, don’t be afraid of anything. When you talk the truth you will feel better about yourself. You will feel more proud about yourself.


“Lies are neither bad nor good. Like a fire they can either keep you warm or burn you to death, depending on how they're used.” 

A Lie is still a Lie, Even When you Use it to Comfort someone.                                                Tell the Truth , Even if it HURTS.


“When truth is replaced by silence, the silence is a lie.”



 











It’s never late. If at all you have a truth hidden in you since longtime, just roll it out to the person whom you had once told a lie. A truth telling, change today, will make your tomorrow better.